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Best stuck-at-home family games

I love anything that makes happy mothering feel easier, and, for me, family game time is totally one of those things.

When we gather to play a game as a family, the whole vibe of our house changes. The kids get more focused. The adults loosen up. Honestly, it’s one of the few parts of parenthood for me that feels as good as it looks on Instagram. ๐Ÿ˜‰

I love the silliness, the giggling, and the inside jokes born from this time spent around our oversized dining room table, or with our elbows propped on pillows as we sprawl on the carpet.

Want more of that in your house? Here are a few of our tried-and-true favorite family games:

Best Games for the Whole Family (Age 2+)

With kids ranging from toddler to tween, it can be challenging to find the best family game for our dynamic. This batch can work for all 6 of us!

These games are quick, simple, and a great way to get us through the last half-hour before bed.

Spot It

This versatile card game is a family favorite over here, and even got pulled out shore-side at a family reunion at Lake Tahoe.

While the game we favor is a race to match your card to the deck, it also comes with instructions for 5 other game styles! (We tried one with the cousins and it, too, was a blast!)

It’s great for any age. Every card has at least one match to every other card, so even if a 2-year-old puts a card down for now reason, it doesn’t throw off the game.

When playing with our youngest, we either take turns laying cards down, play as a team, or decrease amount of cards the younger kids have to discard. There is also a Spot It, Jr. you could try with littles.

Buy: Spot It Classic version / Spot It, Jr. Animals version

UNO

I can get fussy about over-long games, so I love that UNO goes fast–we can usually play a round in about 10 minutes. It’s a great way to squeeze some family time in before the kids head off for bed.

Our youngest started playing with us at age 2, as soon as she knew the four card colors. She quickly picked up on the joy of Wild and Skip cards, and is hilariously overjoyed by the power of skipping her dad or making a big sibling “Draw Four.”

Buy: UNO card game

Favorite 2-Player Family Games (Age 4+)

While we love playing together, it takes effort to make sure all 6 of us are available. These games are great for a mini-gaming session for a duo.

Connect 4

If you’re into more sensory games, you might like Connect 4, which is basically an upgraded version of tic-tac-toe.

This quick-playing game is a more tactile experience than it’s pen-and-paper predecessor: We love feeling the ridges on the chips as we wait our turn, and the lovely plastic clinking sound as each chip drops into place. It’s even fun for kids to finish, because they get to drop all the chips out the bottom and hear them clatter to over each other.

Buy: Connect 4

Battleship

Battleship is my go-to kids’ game to play with my 9-year-old son. He loves puzzles and battles, and I love strategy, this classic guess-and-check game hits a sweet spot for us.

While the logic gets our brains working, dramatically enacting the destruction of each battleship tickles my boy’s funny bone.

This is a great pick if you have some time to slow down–like chess, game play length depends a lot on how quickly each player takes his or her turn.

Buy: Battleship

Best Family Games for Elementary Kids (Age 6+)

I’ll be honest–this group is my favorite of the list. These are a bit more challenging and strategic, and bring everyone’s skills and personality to the forefront.

They take a bit longer than the other games I listed, so they are a great screen-free entertainment option for an evening or weekend afternoon.

Bananagrams

Word games are my favorite–and this one might be my favorite-favorite!

This fast-paced anagram game is kind of like Scrabble, but better. It keeps moving at a happy pace (no waiting turns or counting scores) and everyone plays against themselves–making their own little grouping of anagrams based on words they know.

Plus, how can you not like a game that comes packaged in its own banana peel?

Buy: Bananagrams

War / Slapjack / Spoons

Sometimes a simple deck of cards is just what the doctor ordered. This summer my kids learned to play War, and they whiled away many lazy mornings racing to the finish.

Other family favorites–especially popular at our family reunions!–are Slapjack and Spoons. Instructions are linked–all you need is a deck or two of classic playing cards!

Buy: Bicycle Playing Cards

Bohnanza

Don’t be scared off by the topic of this quirky European game–it is a silly concept but a LOT of fun!

(The topic? Bean farming! Yes. Really. Impressive that they made it such fun, right?!)

We were first introduced to this trade-and-collect game by some friends as newlyweds, and though we played the first round with skepticism, “the bean game” quickly became a game night favorite.

Strategic enough to play sans kids, but straightforward enough for ages 6 and up to pick up quickly, Bohnanza is a hit for us!

Buy: Bohnanza

Ticket to Ride

All 6 of us love this game to pieces. (Pun! Sorry. It was right there.)

A great strategy game for age 8+ (under 8 could play on a “team” with a parent to learn the ropes), the object is to build a railroad that connects to cities across the United States–without being cut off by the other players’ railroads.

We love puzzling out our pathways and goofing off while we take turns. ๐Ÿ™‚

Perfect for a chill-out Sunday, this board game comes out of our game cabinet more than any other.

Buy: Ticket to Ride

Do you have a favorite game you play as a family? What should we add to our game cabinet this year?

xo,
Jamie

Game images via Amazon

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Sometimes when we mother hard, we forget how to be ourselves, too. I'm a mom of four, and while that takes up a lot of my time it's not all I am. I like writing fiction and am learning to watercolor. I love sneaking chocolate in the pantry when my kids aren't looking, and staring up at big white clouds in a blue Texas sky. And I bet you aren't all-mom, either. Let's work together to truly find ourselves in these crazy exhausting beautiful years of motherhood. Read Moreโ€ฆ

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Dear mama, I know you've got a million things you Dear mama, I know you've got a million things you wish you were doing right or better.โฃ
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We're raising these babies of ours.โฃ
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Take a look at your big picture today, mama.โฃ
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I know you're tired and discouraged, and parenting is maybe the most uncertain, high-stakes thing you've ever done--but you're doing it.โฃ
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Day by day, minute by minute.โฃ
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You're doing so much more than you know. โคโฃ
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Tough love time, mama: You might be being ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต kind of friend to your body.โฃ
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How many times have you pushed down what your body needed because you had your own agenda? ๐Ÿ˜ฌโฃ
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Has your body asked for rest, but you've pushed it harder because you're panicked about being able to "do it all." (Psst: Supermoms aren't actually real--I had to hand my kiddo a screen to be able to sit down and type this to you. โค)โฃ
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Has your body said, "I'm hungry," but you've put off eating until later because you're busy, or because an app has told you that your body has had enough calories for today? (Bodies are like wonderful little machines, and they need fuel to keep going!)โฃ
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Has your body asked you for quiet, or movement, or sunshine and fresh air--but you've denied it because it seemed to hard to ask for help, to make the time, to make someone else wait while you took care of yourself?โฃ
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Here's the thing about bodies, mama: They show up for us even when we're being the very worst friends--but we can't expect to somehow love a friend we don't even listen to.โฃ
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Be your body's friend.โฃ
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I've always considered myself kind of "indoorsy," but I quickly came to depend on our little suburban slice of nature to soothe my soul, and, as John Burroughs put it, "have my senses put in order."โฃ
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Today your challenge is to do just that. Step outside, even just to stand on the doormat on your porch, or walk down to the mailbox, and take three minutes to ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ต ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€.โฃ
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It's easy, in the busyness of adulting, to absorb only what we can ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ, so I want you to ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ *๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ* ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€.โฃ
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๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น? Warm sun on your hair, a cool breeze on your skin, the weight of a creeping-up summertime humidity or a little chill whispering through the evening air?โฃ
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๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ? Birdsong rippling through the air? The rustle of leaves shivering in the wind, or the buzz of honeybees?โฃ
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๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜€๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น? The floral scent of jasmine, the sharpness of fresh-mown grass, the damp earthy fragrance of soil after rain?โฃ
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Let nature put your senses in order today and ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜† ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ when you give it a little space.โฃ
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Toddlers set a beautifully simple example of the b Toddlers set a beautifully simple example of the body connection we all long for.
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They're fully devoted to ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐˜€:
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Will my body fit into this cupboard? This basket? This Tupperware?
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What does it feel like to squeeze a whole banana into mush?
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Do I like the taste of Play-doh, Old Spice deodorant, or wood chips from the playground? (Why is the answer to these "Yes!" though, toddlers?)
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Toddlers are ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€, and they use their bodies to explore their environment with an enthusiasm that leaves most toddler-mamas exhausted. ๐Ÿ˜œ 
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๐—ช๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—บ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€.
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Toddler curiosity never comes perfectly packaged:
They're furious that they can't fit their lower body into a Tupperware! They're constantly covered in mud, Crayola markers, or applesauce. And while they will happily devour half a stick of deodorant if left unsupervised while you pee for ONE MINUTE, they ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ scream if you try to feed them a delicious slice of watermelon or a quesadilla served on the wrong color plate.
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We don't have to be perfect in our curiosity either!
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I am consistently fussy when I try to do an exercise that my body is new at (I'm looking at you, diamond pushups, you big jerks), embarrassed when I fumble the keys during piano lessons, and frustrated at how slowly my hands are learning to draw a reasonably good portrait.
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That's okay! Curiosity can be messy. Messy is allowed.
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๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฑ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฟ-๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€, and use your body to explore your world more deeply.
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What does the tall grass in your backyard feel like? Do you still dislike blueberries? Can you do a pushup? (If you can't, do you want to learn?)
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Feel the feelings that come with these things, but don't beat yourself up. Just be curious. Wonder. Try. Log that information, and be curious about more things.
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Want a little accountability? Come back here and share your in the comments what you got curious about today!
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When you were a little kid, your primary goal was When you were a little kid, your primary goal was to ๐—ฃ๐—Ÿ๐—”๐—ฌ ๐—”๐—ฆ ๐— ๐—จ๐—–๐—› ๐—”๐—ฆ ๐—ฃ๐—ข๐—ฆ๐—ฆ๐—œ๐—•๐—Ÿ๐—˜. You were 100% sure that this was the purpose of your body.
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Not chores, not school, not eating a balanced meal with all the food groups accounted for. Nope. Those were uses of your body (usually spoon-fed to you by grown ups). But to you the purpose of your body was PLAY!
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What do you think is the purpose of your body now?
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To clean up the kitchen again, and go get more groceries? To keep your toddler and/or dog out of the trashcan? To remember everybody's dental appointments and birthdays and shoe sizes?
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These are all noble purposes--but they're not necessarily joyful.
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They might make you feel ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ for your body in that adulty I-should-feel-grateful way, but they probably don't help you enjoy and connect with your body.
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Play, though? Play is joyful!
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Play lets us appreciate and enjoy living in our bodies.
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๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚?
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Not the obligatory play-pretend-with-the-kids, but ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ kind of play.
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Look for play you can do ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ you do your adulty stuff, like dancing like a weirdo with some Meghan Trainor in your headphones while you clean the kitchen.
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Look for play you can do JUST FOR THE SAKE OF PLAY--like taking time to draw or cook something just because it sounds fun.
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Look for ways you can use play to connect, like making silly faces at your kid across the dinner table, or saying "Yes" to a tickle fight.
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More fun = more connection with your body, so ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฃ๐—Ÿ๐—”๐—ฌ!
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Do you ever feel totally angry at or disconnected Do you ever feel totally angry at or disconnected from your body? Like, who even ๐˜ช๐˜ด my body anymore?โฃ
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As women, our relationships with our bodies get incredibly complicated even early on in our lives--and especially when ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป.โฃ
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Your might feel angry at and betrayed by your body--maybe you have for years:โฃ
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Because you bled through your clothes when you were a tween, or didn't get your period until so late in life that it was scary, or never got one at all.โฃ
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Because your breasts grew too early or too late, too big or too small.โฃ
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Because your body didn't match the shapes you idealized, or the strength you hoped you'd have.โฃ
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Because you couldn't exercise without using an inhaler.โฃ
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Because it carries painful and challenging chronic illness, or needs antidepressants to function better.โฃ
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Because it looks so different than people always notice it and talk about it--even tease you about it or turn away from you over it.โฃ
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Because it couldn't get pregnant, or couldn't carry your baby full term.โฃ
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Because it couldn't produce enough milk to nurse, or because nursing was so painful or difficult that it became impossible.โฃ
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Because it didn't "bounce back" after you gave birth, won't get smaller when you want it to, has aches and pains that seem to come from nowhere, doesn't fit into your pre-pregnancy jeans, insists on wearing clothes with a bigger number on the tag.โฃ
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So many reasons.โฃ
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Last week I confessed that this year I've felt deeply sad about how my body looks. And as I shared about ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ feelings about my body I realized, all of a sudden, that ๐—œ'๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—œ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—œ'๐—ฑ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ด.โฃ
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This week we're going to look at gently reconnecting with our bodies. Dipping a toe in the water of re-trusting. Putting into practice our mantra that ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑ.โฃ
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๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜†.โฃ
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[Photo of me riding my broom "horse" in my shiny robe, circa 1989 ๐Ÿ˜˜]
What if you didn't have to earn love by looking be What if you didn't have to earn love by looking better? What if you already are loved as you are--how would that change how you feel in and about your body?โฃ
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Could you start living and working from a place of encouragement instead of desperation?โฃ
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Could you stop trying to earn your worthiness by changing you body--and just look after it instead?โฃ
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This concept from @lysaterkeurst 's book profoundly changed me: "Live from the abundant place that you are loved, and you wont find yourself begging others for scraps of love."โฃ
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Until we choose to allow ourselves to receive and accept love ๐™–๐™จ ๐™ฌ๐™š ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฌ, we will continuously, frantically scramble toward an imaginary pinnacle of self that is "worthy."โฃ
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No need to scramble, sweet mama: you are already worthy of love.โฃ
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Your challenge now is to bravely open your heart up, and let it in.
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