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The Simple Secret to (Easy!) Magical Christmas Traditions

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A few years ago, the idea of creating holiday magic overwhelmed me. It felt like I had to choose between myself and my kids: I could either have easy Christmas traditions, or truly magical ones.

But obviously I couldn’t do both, right?

Anything really special seemed like it took a lot of prep work, a lot of homemade components, and a lot of time. Which meant that, while it might be fun for the kids, I’d probably end up exhausted and cleaning up a big old mess.

No wonder the idea of traditions felt daunting!

But this year I stumbled across a simple trick that made our favorite holiday activities way more manageable–and fun–for me, too!

Are you ready to create easy, magical Christmas traditions?

Here’s what you need to know!

The Secret to Easy Christmas Traditions

So often we think that Christmas magic comes from doing everything big or homemade.

But the big secret to making holiday magic that everybody (even mama) gets to enjoy is simple:

Get awesome seasonal supplies!

Hand holding Christmas stickers

The Magic of Seasonal Supplies

This weekend my girls spent hours making Christmas cards at the kitchen counter in their pajamas.

The sight of their tousled heads bent together over their creations was a little bit of Christmas magic for me–and I didn’t have to do anything to make it happen.

My only contribution was the supplies: a stack of blank cards and envelopes, and a packet of cute Christmas stickers.

In no time our kitchen island covered in magical, adorable, kid-made Christmas cards!

They didn’t need me to guide them through anything. They just needed those simple, magical supplies to inspire them.

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Seasonal Supplies for Simple Christmas Traditions

I first heard the term “seasonal supplies” from cozy-expert Myquillin Smith.

In her book Welcome Home (which is all about simple seasonal celebrations!) she talks about welcoming the seasons with all 5 of our senses: smell, taste, touch, sight, and sound.

Photo of Welcome Home book by Myquillyn Smith

I’ve loved approaching our simple holiday traditions this way, too. Some of our seasonal supplies have become easy Christmas traditions themselves!

Here are some of the seasonal supplies I use in our home:

  • Smell: In addition to the fragrances of wintertime foods, we love having seasonal holiday scented soaps in our bathrooms. It’s totally silly, but also delightful!
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  • Taste: Our simple taste-worthy supplies are a good quality hot cocoa mix, store-bought gingerbread cookies, and Chocolate advent calendars from Trader Joe’s.
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  • Touch: This season is all about softness and coziness to us, so I pull out super plush blankets for the sofa when a chill hits the air. We also buy fleecy Christmas pajamas, and give them to the kids on Thanksgiving so they can wear them all month long.
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  • Sight: There is so much emphasis on sight-based decor, I’m sure you don’t need a list here! But if there was only one supply I had to pick for things we look at, I’d choose twinkle lights in a heartbeat!
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  • Sound: Music is such a subtle way to set the mood of a season. I spent some time making and Christmas playlist of mellow, feel-good holiday songs, and I play it in the background of our home all season on with the help of our robot friend Alexa.
Gingerbread houses

Super Easy Christmas Traditions for Kids

Ready to make your Christmas traditions way easier?

Here’s a list of easy traditions & the supplies you need to make them happen!

Remember–provide supplies, and then let the kids enjoy them.

Don’t put pressure on yourself to lead every activity!

1. Decorate their Bedrooms

Supply Ideas: Dollar store tinsel or garland, Christmas or twinkle lights, and/or (optional) small Christmas tree

2. Make Christmas Cards

Supply Ideas: Blank cards, stickers, crayons or markers

3. Decorate Sugar Cookies

Supply Ideas: Pre-baked sugar cookies or a tube of store bought dough, frosting, sprinkles

4. Christmas Movie Night

Supply ideas: Microwave popcorn, movie-style candy, cozy blanket

5. Story Time by the Christmas Tree

Supply ideas: Hot cocoa mix, whipped cream or marshmallows, cozy blanket, 2-4 favorite Christmas storybooks. (Try turning out the lights and reading by the glow of the tree!)

6. Decorate Gingerbread Houses

Supply ideas: Pre-packaged gingerbread house kit, hot glue (to glue the houses together!), extra pre-made tube of decorating frosting

Christmas Traditions can be Easy and Magical

If your holiday season is already feeling busy, please know that you don’t have to burn yourself out to make the season a joyful one for your kids. Just remember our formula:

Simple activities + good supplies = easy magical memories ๐ŸŽ„๐Ÿ’–

Merry Christmas to you & yours, and may your holiday season be full of simple magic!

xo,
Jamie

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Hey, mama. I’m Jamie. I help moms like you learn how to reclaim the light insideโ€“that passion for life that sometimes gets swallowed up in the midst of all that mothering requires of us.ย Let’s work together to find ways to reclaim our true, complete selves in these crazy, exhausting, beautiful years of motherhood. โ™ฅย  ย  ย {Read more…}

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Sometimes when we mother hard, we forget how to be ourselves, too. I'm a mom of four, and while that takes up a lot of my time it's not all I am. I like writing fiction and am learning to watercolor. I love sneaking chocolate in the pantry when my kids aren't looking, and staring up at big white clouds in a blue Texas sky. And I bet you aren't all-mom, either. Let's work together to truly find ourselves in these crazy exhausting beautiful years of motherhood. Read Moreโ€ฆ

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I hated exercise until August of last year.โฃ
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And I didn't want to wait until my body was x, y, and to declare it worthy. ๐—œ ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด.โฃ
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I wanted to live in worthiness ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ I worked for more health and strength.โฃ
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The big thing that changed for me was just this: I found a workout option that aligned with that. It's called @momma_strong, and it's one of my favorite places on the internet:โฃ
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A new 15 minute HIIT workout every day, lead by the most lovable, strong, down-to-earth mama. A non-Facebook community where you can connect with other mamas and ask any question you want of the MommaStrong Physical Therapist ("Why does my back hurt when I unload dishes?" "Is it normal to pee when I sneeze?" "How to I release this tight muscle?").โฃ
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This is totally unsolicited by them--no sponsoring or anything--and I pay my own money for it every month with JOY. It has made my workout mat my safe place.โฃ
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If you're looking for a way to fit in a workout more often, and a community that will help you feel like your work counts and your body is worthy ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฐ๐˜ธ--I cannot recommend it enough. Hope to see you there. ๐Ÿ˜˜
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I've always loved nesting, but I could never have achieved this room on my own. As @thenester puts it, I was making good decisions--but in the wrong order. Did you even know that was a thing?
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Going through her classes in the Cozy Minimalist Community has taught me all kinds of things, from when to hang my art (not until after the curtains are up! ๐Ÿคฉ) to the impact a rug can make on a room (I never would have put a rug over carpet on my own!).
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And most importantly, it's given me a step-by-step formula to create functional, beautiful rooms that works hard for my family--and the confidence to be a little bolder.
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If you've been dreaming of a home that feels more like ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ, but can't figure out quite how to get there, you couldn't dream up a more affordable, useful, encouraging way to get there than the Cozy Community.
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For just $10 a month (cancelable at any time ๐Ÿ˜Ž) you get weekly live classes from NYT bestselling authoress Myquillyn Smith, where she walks you through exactly how to build a room you love--starting with what you already have. You also get a huge library of past live classes from the past two years of Cozy content, and access to the Facebook community where other "Cozies" share inspiration, answer each other's questions, and generally cheer each other on!
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On the fence? ๐Ÿค” I have a whole review of the course--including why you maybe ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฏ'๐˜ต join--linked in my profile ( @brightlightmama ) to help you decide! โค๏ธ๐ŸŒฟ
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#cozyminimalist #comi #mycozyhome #nestingplace #thecozyminimalist #cozyminimalisthome #cozycommunity #howihome
Dear mama, I know you've got a million things you Dear mama, I know you've got a million things you wish you were doing right or better.โฃ
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I know, because I do, too.โฃ
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I wish I was spending daily one-on-one time with each of my four kiddos, reading books to them more regularly, taking more pictures and video. I wish I was a regular library mom, playdate mom, park-going mom. I wish I liked cooking more, that I wrote them monthly notes to read someday when they are older, and that I didn't get headaches from the sheer volume of four happy children making all the joyful (and kind of weird) noises.โฃ
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But when I (all too rarely) pull back and take a look at the ๐—•๐—œ๐—š ๐—ฃ๐—œ๐—–๐—ง๐—จ๐—ฅ๐—˜, I realize: we're doing it, mama.โฃ
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We're raising these babies of ours.โฃ
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We're nudging them toward their paths, encouraging them, loving on them. We're teaching them by our words, and by our imperfect examples how to start over when they mess up. How to be brave. How to say I'm sorry. How to keep showing up, even when it feels hard.โฃ
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Take a look at your big picture today, mama.โฃ
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Look at all you've accomplished, even when you've thought you weren't doing enough. (Even if you, like me, have to fight back that feeling even ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ you celebrate your wins.)โฃ
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I know you're tired and discouraged, and parenting is maybe the most uncertain, high-stakes thing you've ever done--but you're doing it.โฃ
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Day by day, minute by minute.โฃ
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You're doing so much more than you know. โคโฃ
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#honestmotherhood #motherhood #motherhoodrising #uniteinmotherhood #ig_motherhood #dailyparenting #mommylife #workingmom #ohheymama #parenthood #motherhoodunplugged #mothership #momlife #sahm #sahmlife #busymom #parenting #stayathomemom #momsofinstagram #connectingmoms #mummyblogger #motherhoodthroughinstagram #mumblog #humansofjoy #hopewriters #mommylove
You know that friend who always has her own agenda You know that friend who always has her own agenda--and kinda forgets that you have needs to?โฃ
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Tough love time, mama: You might be being ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ต kind of friend to your body.โฃ
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How many times have you pushed down what your body needed because you had your own agenda? ๐Ÿ˜ฌโฃ
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Has your body asked for rest, but you've pushed it harder because you're panicked about being able to "do it all." (Psst: Supermoms aren't actually real--I had to hand my kiddo a screen to be able to sit down and type this to you. โค)โฃ
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Has your body said, "I'm hungry," but you've put off eating until later because you're busy, or because an app has told you that your body has had enough calories for today? (Bodies are like wonderful little machines, and they need fuel to keep going!)โฃ
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Has your body asked you for quiet, or movement, or sunshine and fresh air--but you've denied it because it seemed to hard to ask for help, to make the time, to make someone else wait while you took care of yourself?โฃ
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Here's the thing about bodies, mama: They show up for us even when we're being the very worst friends--but we can't expect to somehow love a friend we don't even listen to.โฃ
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I know motherhood is complicated, and sometimes showing up for your body is anything but simple--but you can do it.โฃ
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It doesn't have to be big and showy--no spa days or personal trainers required.โฃ
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Just start by listening and responding:โฃ
Feed it when it is hungry.โฃ
Sit down when it is tired.โฃ
Wear clothes that feel good.โฃ
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Be your body's friend.โฃ
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#bodylove #bodylove4all #bodyconfidence #loveyourbody #momof4 #honormycurves #positivebodyimage #bodyimage #bodyimageresilience #empowerment #empowering #loveyourbody #selfworth #nondiet #selfacceptance #empowerment #bodyacceptance #bodypositivity #bopo #bodyposi #bodydiversity #bodyneutrality #haes #dietculture  #raisingdaughters
I started having panic attacks in the early days o I started having panic attacks in the early days of pandemic lockdown last year, when we couldn't reliably get milk and fresh (or even frozen) produce, we didn't know how the virus spread, and my husband was going into work in the ER during a mask shortage.โฃ
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With the kids cooped up inside for much of the day doing "Zoom school," we soon recognized that we all needed an outlet and instituted a mandatory hour of outside time--for ALL of us--before we started our asynchronous school day.โฃ
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I've always considered myself kind of "indoorsy," but I quickly came to depend on our little suburban slice of nature to soothe my soul, and, as John Burroughs put it, "have my senses put in order."โฃ
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Today your challenge is to do just that. Step outside, even just to stand on the doormat on your porch, or walk down to the mailbox, and take three minutes to ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ต ๐—ผ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€.โฃ
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It's easy, in the busyness of adulting, to absorb only what we can ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ๐˜ฆ, so I want you to ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฎ๐˜๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ *๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ* ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€.โฃ
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๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น? Warm sun on your hair, a cool breeze on your skin, the weight of a creeping-up summertime humidity or a little chill whispering through the evening air?โฃ
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๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ? Birdsong rippling through the air? The rustle of leaves shivering in the wind, or the buzz of honeybees?โฃ
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๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜€๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น? The floral scent of jasmine, the sharpness of fresh-mown grass, the damp earthy fragrance of soil after rain?โฃ
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Let nature put your senses in order today and ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜† ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ when you give it a little space.โฃ
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#optoutside #essentialism #slowmotherhood #simplicity #simplifiedliving #motherhoodsimplified #bodyneutrality #motherhoodunplugged #bodyconfidence #loveyourbody #mentalhealth
Toddlers set a beautifully simple example of the b Toddlers set a beautifully simple example of the body connection we all long for.
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They're fully devoted to ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐˜€:
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Will my body fit into this cupboard? This basket? This Tupperware?
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What does it feel like to squeeze a whole banana into mush?
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Do I like the taste of Play-doh, Old Spice deodorant, or wood chips from the playground? (Why is the answer to these "Yes!" though, toddlers?)
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Toddlers are ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€, and they use their bodies to explore their environment with an enthusiasm that leaves most toddler-mamas exhausted. ๐Ÿ˜œ 
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๐—ช๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—บ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ถ๐˜๐˜† ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€.
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Toddler curiosity never comes perfectly packaged:
They're furious that they can't fit their lower body into a Tupperware! They're constantly covered in mud, Crayola markers, or applesauce. And while they will happily devour half a stick of deodorant if left unsupervised while you pee for ONE MINUTE, they ๐˜ธ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ญ scream if you try to feed them a delicious slice of watermelon or a quesadilla served on the wrong color plate.
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We don't have to be perfect in our curiosity either!
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I am consistently fussy when I try to do an exercise that my body is new at (I'm looking at you, diamond pushups, you big jerks), embarrassed when I fumble the keys during piano lessons, and frustrated at how slowly my hands are learning to draw a reasonably good portrait.
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That's okay! Curiosity can be messy. Messy is allowed.
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๐—ง๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฑ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฟ-๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€, and use your body to explore your world more deeply.
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What does the tall grass in your backyard feel like? Do you still dislike blueberries? Can you do a pushup? (If you can't, do you want to learn?)
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Feel the feelings that come with these things, but don't beat yourself up. Just be curious. Wonder. Try. Log that information, and be curious about more things.
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Want a little accountability? Come back here and share your in the comments what you got curious about today!
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#bodylove4all #bodyconfidence #loveyourbody #positivebodyimage #bodyimage #loveyourbody
When you were a little kid, your primary goal was When you were a little kid, your primary goal was to ๐—ฃ๐—Ÿ๐—”๐—ฌ ๐—”๐—ฆ ๐— ๐—จ๐—–๐—› ๐—”๐—ฆ ๐—ฃ๐—ข๐—ฆ๐—ฆ๐—œ๐—•๐—Ÿ๐—˜. You were 100% sure that this was the purpose of your body.
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Not chores, not school, not eating a balanced meal with all the food groups accounted for. Nope. Those were uses of your body (usually spoon-fed to you by grown ups). But to you the purpose of your body was PLAY!
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What do you think is the purpose of your body now?
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To clean up the kitchen again, and go get more groceries? To keep your toddler and/or dog out of the trashcan? To remember everybody's dental appointments and birthdays and shoe sizes?
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These are all noble purposes--but they're not necessarily joyful.
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They might make you feel ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ง๐˜ถ๐˜ญ for your body in that adulty I-should-feel-grateful way, but they probably don't help you enjoy and connect with your body.
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Play, though? Play is joyful!
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Play lets us appreciate and enjoy living in our bodies.
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๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚?
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Not the obligatory play-pretend-with-the-kids, but ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ kind of play.
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Look for play you can do ๐˜ธ๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ you do your adulty stuff, like dancing like a weirdo with some Meghan Trainor in your headphones while you clean the kitchen.
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Look for play you can do JUST FOR THE SAKE OF PLAY--like taking time to draw or cook something just because it sounds fun.
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Look for ways you can use play to connect, like making silly faces at your kid across the dinner table, or saying "Yes" to a tickle fight.
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More fun = more connection with your body, so ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฎ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฃ๐—Ÿ๐—”๐—ฌ!
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Do you ever feel totally angry at or disconnected Do you ever feel totally angry at or disconnected from your body? Like, who even ๐˜ช๐˜ด my body anymore?โฃ
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As women, our relationships with our bodies get incredibly complicated even early on in our lives--and especially when ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ป.โฃ
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Your might feel angry at and betrayed by your body--maybe you have for years:โฃ
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Because you bled through your clothes when you were a tween, or didn't get your period until so late in life that it was scary, or never got one at all.โฃ
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Because your breasts grew too early or too late, too big or too small.โฃ
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Because your body didn't match the shapes you idealized, or the strength you hoped you'd have.โฃ
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Because you couldn't exercise without using an inhaler.โฃ
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Because it carries painful and challenging chronic illness, or needs antidepressants to function better.โฃ
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Because it looks so different than people always notice it and talk about it--even tease you about it or turn away from you over it.โฃ
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Because it couldn't get pregnant, or couldn't carry your baby full term.โฃ
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Because it couldn't produce enough milk to nurse, or because nursing was so painful or difficult that it became impossible.โฃ
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Because it didn't "bounce back" after you gave birth, won't get smaller when you want it to, has aches and pains that seem to come from nowhere, doesn't fit into your pre-pregnancy jeans, insists on wearing clothes with a bigger number on the tag.โฃ
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So many reasons.โฃ
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Last week I confessed that this year I've felt deeply sad about how my body looks. And as I shared about ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ feelings about my body I realized, all of a sudden, that ๐—œ'๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ด๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—œ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต๐˜ ๐—œ'๐—ฑ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜ง๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ ๐˜บ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ณ๐˜ด.โฃ
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This week we're going to look at gently reconnecting with our bodies. Dipping a toe in the water of re-trusting. Putting into practice our mantra that ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜† ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—น๐—ฑ.โฃ
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๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—ด๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐—ฑ๐˜†.โฃ
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[Photo of me riding my broom "horse" in my shiny robe, circa 1989 ๐Ÿ˜˜]
What if you didn't have to earn love by looking be What if you didn't have to earn love by looking better? What if you already are loved as you are--how would that change how you feel in and about your body?โฃ
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Could you start living and working from a place of encouragement instead of desperation?โฃ
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Could you stop trying to earn your worthiness by changing you body--and just look after it instead?โฃ
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This concept from @lysaterkeurst 's book profoundly changed me: "Live from the abundant place that you are loved, and you wont find yourself begging others for scraps of love."โฃ
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Until we choose to allow ourselves to receive and accept love ๐™–๐™จ ๐™ฌ๐™š ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฃ๐™ค๐™ฌ, we will continuously, frantically scramble toward an imaginary pinnacle of self that is "worthy."โฃ
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No need to scramble, sweet mama: you are already worthy of love.โฃ
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Your challenge now is to bravely open your heart up, and let it in.
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